The family provides the love and nurturing required for
the survival of children. As we grow older, we crave nurturing, but are not
adept at asking for it. We long for affirmation from the‘significant other’ in
our lives. Affirmation is when important people in our lives appreciate us and
express it verbally, tonally,
non-verbally. The opposite of an affirmation is a
discount. You need at least ten affirmations for every discount for the
maintenance of a healthy relationship. A home filled with discounts becomes a torture
chamber instead of a sanctuary. It is important to make sure you give
affirmations to all members
of the family, particularly the ones to whom you usually
send devastating Heat Seeking Missiles (HSMs) like, ‘Why is your room like a
pig sty?’ ‘Why do you always forget anything I tell you?’ Make every day an
occasion to show how important your family is to you.
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