The Seventh Radiant Action For Dharmic Living

You can fool everybody, but you cannot fool yourself. Not even for a single minute. Doing your dharma as you understand it, alone can make you happy. If you feel that what you are doing is adharma, you can never be happy. 

Think what we have done to chickens. Look at chickens in the yard. How happy they are flying around, pecking in the dust playing with their other fluffy chickens. Think how they feel in poultry farms, packed together, unable to move except to peck at their food. The poultry farms want to improve their profit, by keeping them fat and inactive.

The Sixth Radiant Action For Social Bonding

No man is an island, but a part of the Main, wrote the pensive poet John Donne. Man is a social animal and needs to live in harmony with fellow human beings. Interpersonal intelligence is the ability to understand other people, to communicate effectively with them, to identify what motivates them, and to work cooperatively with them. Intrapersonal intelligence is the inward ability to understand and form an accurate model of one’s self and to operate that model effectively to live life. Professor Howard Gardner of the Harvard School of Psychology says that the two aspects of personal intelligence, interpersonal and intrapersonal, form the most important foundation for a happy, fulfilling life. For those who define success as happiness, these two elements are essential to learn and practice.

The Fifth Radiant Action For Nurturing The Workplace

‘People can be very happy if they love their work,’ A national anthem celebrates nationhood, the blood, sweat and tears of creating a country. It aims to transcend logic and unleash the tigers of passion. The Americans stand there, hand on heart, before their flag and sing the Stars and Stripes. It creates a wave of national pride and primes people for leadership. The Japanese use this same force to create love for the company they work in. Vivekananda carried the message of India to the world with his matchless talk which starts, “Arise, Awake, stop not till the goal is reached”!

When you infuse a sense of pride and joy in what you do, it becomes a joyful experience, instead of a chore. To work at something you love, to be “self-actualised”, in Maslow’s terms, is to protect yourself against dying young.

The Fourth Radiant Action For Family Bonding

The family provides the love and nurturing required for the  survival of children. As we grow older, we crave nurturing, but are not adept at asking for it. We long for affirmation from the ‘significant other’ in our lives. Affirmation is when important people in our lives appreciate us and express it verbally, tonally, non-verbally. The opposite of an affirmation is a discount. You need at least ten affirmations for every discount for the maintenance of a healthy relationship. A home filled with discounts becomes a torture chamber instead of a sanctuary. It is important to make sure you give affirmations to all members of the family, particularly the ones to whom you usually send devastating Heat Seeking Missiles (HSMs) like, ‘Why is your room like a pig sty?’ ‘Why do you always forget anything I tell you?’ Make every day an occasion to show how important your family is to you.

The Third Radiant Action For Personal Wellness

Before you are a husband, a father, a son or a team mate, you are a person. Explore the self, the ‘you’ in your life. Most people go through life without being fully aware of their own identity. Everyone on earth is given only twenty-four hours. Use them wisely so that you have more life in your years. You cannot leave footprints on the sands of time just because you used your Blackberry better than anyone else! Music has the power to purify the emotional field like nothing else. Pranayama helps you sing without losing your breath. The mindspace becomes sweetly harmonious and no harsh words can be spoken there.

The Second Radiant Action For Emotional Wellness

Emotions pour into the blood stream like mountain streams on a parched desert.  A garden blooms, with the fountains of compassion, the flowers of friendship, the moon light of wonder, the arrowing birds of courage and the butterflies of laughter and humor.  Positive emotions create a garden around you.  Negative emotions create rocks and stones, thorns, snakes and scorpions in your mind space.  Meditation, practiced regularly, can help you develop the capacity to be analytical, positive, disciplined and eliminate negative fields. The positive field is created by a common prayer or “mantra”.  A mental process which draws a magic circle around all those who are participating.  A common exercise, a common company song, common goals, all enhance the power of the positive field.  A handshake, a friendly look, an encouraging word are key factors. When you think, believe and act in a positive manner, you create a positive field for yourself and others.

The First Radiant Action For Physical Wellness

Health is a state of physical, mental and social well-being, not merely an absence of diseases or infirmity.  Really speaking, health is not a state but a continuous adjustment to the changing demands of life and the environment.  Positive health implies perfect functioning of body and mind in a given society.

All the ancients believed that no attempt should be made to cure the body without treating the soul.  To be healthy is to have the ability, despite an occasional bout of illness, to live with full use of your faculties and to be vigorous, alert and happy to be alive, even in old age.  This concept of operational health has been termed ‘wellness’.  It is a sense of all-round well-being.